Maybe Music?
"(Voice your frustration) The man of 1000 voices, talking perfectly loud, but nobody seems to hear him. Do you, don't you want me to make you. Tell me, tell me, tell me your answer."
HIM: I'll, uh .... get back to you later. There will be an answer, let it be.
R&R: When people in a get along/approval mode become concerned about your feelings, they go even deeper into their own feelings of indecision. Thanks to your emotional expression, whatever thought they were capable of is now directed toward dealing with your feelings rather than the issue at hand.
If you know that's mean and you're changing your scene, get back.
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