"The way you look and sound."
R&R: If you sound like the Terminator , then you've become a Tank yourself. If you sound like Woody Allen, you will likely be percieved as too wimpy. We recommend the Ghandi approach, in that you ask the relevancy question in a non-violent and innocent way. This creates a contrast between the Sniper's inappropriate behavior and your professional behavior.
RICKLES: Hey, don't get all emotional. Can't you take a joke? (heh, heh)